
My ex and I broke up about six years ago. He didn't treat me right, and we were fighting all the time. We continued to hang out and talk after the breakup, and we agreed that we would invite each other to our future weddings. It didn't seem like such a big deal at the time, especially to me because I thought we would get back together. I was young at the time and naive, and didn't see how toxic it was to be with him. I've been with my fiancee for about fours years. Since that time, my correspondence with the ex has dropped down to nearly nothing. It's been impossible to continue being friends with him because, in a nutshell, he thinks I still have feelings for him. Witch is totally false. I will admit, it took me a while to get over him, I even talked about him when I first started seeing my fiancee. But I've moved on and I am in the most amazing relationship of my life.When I got engaged back in December I did tell my ex and we told me not to forget his invitation. As I look at my guest list, I can't help but be reminded of the promise we made. My fiancee is not the jealous type at all, and he knows I'm completely committed to him, but I'm hesitant about asking him if the ex should be invited. What do you think? Should I invite him? Would you invite your ex to your wedding?
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